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  <title>The Better Father: guides for fathers</title>
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  <entry><title>How to apologize to your child after yelling</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/how-to-apologize-to-your-child/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/how-to-apologize-to-your-child/</id><published>2026-10-04T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>Yelled at your kid and felt like crap? What to say (and what to leave out), how soon to go back, scripts by age, and what to do if they won&#x27;t accept it.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>Parenting courses for dads of older kids (not newborns): an honest guide</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/parenting-courses-for-dads/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/parenting-courses-for-dads/</id><published>2026-10-04T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>Most dad courses are for expecting fathers. Free and paid options for dads of kids from toddlers to early teens, what each is good for, and how to choose.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>“How was school?” “Fine.” How to get your teenage son to talk to you</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/teenage-son-one-word-answers/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/teenage-son-one-word-answers/</id><published>2026-10-04T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>Your son answers everything with “fine”? Why sit-down talks backfire, the questions that work better than “how was school,” and what to do the night he talks.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>How to stop yelling at your kids: a guide for dads</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/stop-yelling-at-your-kids/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/stop-yelling-at-your-kids/</id><published>2026-10-04T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>Why do I yell at my kids so much? Why deciding to stop doesn&#x27;t work, what to notice right before you snap, and small things to practice at home.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>How to stop being on your phone around your kids</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/phone-around-your-kids/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/phone-around-your-kids/</id><published>2026-10-04T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>He wanted to show you something and you didn&#x27;t look up from your phone? Why willpower loses, the two-hour rule, and what to say about his phone.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>Coming home from work stressed: a one-breath reset at the front door</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/coming-home-from-work-stressed/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/coming-home-from-work-stressed/</id><published>2026-10-04T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>Too stressed when you get home, and your kids get the worst of it? Why they read your mood first, the one-breath reset at the door, and what to say instead.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>How not to become your father, when you hear his voice come out of your mouth</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/how-not-to-become-your-father/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/how-not-to-become-your-father/</id><published>2026-10-04T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>Raised by a yeller and hearing him in your own voice? Telling the event from the story, mapping what was handed down, and changing what you pass on.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>How to stay calm with a toddler: a guide for dads</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/stay-calm-with-a-toddler/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/stay-calm-with-a-toddler/</id><published>2026-10-04T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>Losing your temper with your toddler? Why the tantrums get to you so fast, what to do in the middle of one, and small things a dad can try tonight.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>“Fine.” How to get your 6- to 12-year-old to talk to you</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/when-your-kid-says-fine/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/when-your-kid-says-fine/</id><published>2026-10-04T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>Your 8- or 10-year-old won&#x27;t talk to you beyond “fine”? Why kids this age go quiet, where they open up, and what a dad can try tonight.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>How to reconnect with your adult son or daughter (for dads)</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/reconnect-with-adult-child/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/reconnect-with-adult-child/</id><published>2026-10-06T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>Your adult son or daughter rarely calls, or stopped calling? Steps for dads by text, phone, visit and letter, how to apologize, and when to give them space.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>How to stop fighting with your teenager (for dads)</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/stop-fighting-with-your-teenager/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/stop-fighting-with-your-teenager/</id><published>2026-10-06T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>Arguing with your teenage son or daughter every day? How to stop a fight partway, what to stop saying, which rules to keep, and what to do after you lose it.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>How to bond with your baby as a dad, even if you feel left out</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/how-to-bond-with-your-baby-as-a-dad/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/how-to-bond-with-your-baby-as-a-dad/</id><published>2026-10-06T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>Don&#x27;t feel connected to your newborn yet, or feel left out? What a new dad can do this week: skin to skin, the bath, the night feeds and time alone together.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>How to stay close to your kids after divorce, as a part-time dad</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/stay-close-to-your-kids-after-divorce/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/stay-close-to-your-kids-after-divorce/</id><published>2026-10-06T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>Divorced or separated and see your kids on weekends? How to stay close between visits, what to do with your time together, and co-parenting without blame.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>Dad guilt about working too much: how to be there with your kids after work</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/dad-guilt-working-too-much/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/dad-guilt-working-too-much/</id><published>2026-10-06T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>Not enough time with your kids because of work? What to do with the hours you have: the first ten minutes home, a protected half hour, mornings and weekends.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>How to discipline without yelling, and get kids to listen</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/discipline-without-yelling/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/discipline-without-yelling/</id><published>2026-10-06T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>How to get kids to listen without yelling: say it once up close, give one warning with the consequence named, then follow through calmly. For ages 3 to 12.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>First-time dad tips: what new dads should know in the first year</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/first-time-dad-tips/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/first-time-dad-tips/</id><published>2026-10-06T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>New dad advice for the first year: what to do before the baby comes, the first two weeks, nights, going back to work, and what changes month by month.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>How to get your teenager off their phone: phone rules for dads</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/teenager-phone-rules/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/teenager-phone-rules/</id><published>2026-10-06T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>Teenager glued to their phone? Start with yours, then agree on a few rules: none in the bedroom at night, none at meals or driving. How to make them stick.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>How to connect with your daughter as a dad, from little girl to teenager</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/connect-with-your-daughter/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/connect-with-your-daughter/</id><published>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>How a dad can connect with his daughter at any age: regular time that&#x27;s hers, listening before fixing, and staying close when she&#x27;s a teen who won&#x27;t talk.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>How to be a good stepdad: go slow, back her up, find your thing</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/how-to-be-a-good-stepdad/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/how-to-be-a-good-stepdad/</id><published>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>Stepdad tips that help: go slow, let their parent lead on discipline at first, back her up, and find one thing you and your stepkid do together.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>How to be a good role model for your son: what boys learn from their dads</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/be-a-good-role-model-for-your-son/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/be-a-good-role-model-for-your-son/</id><published>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>Your son learns more from what you do than what you say. What boys pick up from their dads, and small ways to show him anger, mistakes and respect this week.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>My kid won&#x27;t listen: how to get heard without yelling</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/kid-wont-listen/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/kid-wont-listen/</id><published>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>Kid won&#x27;t listen until you yell? Get close before you talk, give one instruction, say it once, use when/then, and know what to do when they still don&#x27;t move.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
  <entry><title>When your kid prefers mom over dad: what to do, from toddler to teen</title><link href="https://thebetterfather.com/guides/when-your-kid-prefers-mom/"/><id>https://thebetterfather.com/guides/when-your-kid-prefers-mom/</id><published>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</published><updated>2026-10-07T00:00:00Z</updated><summary>Your toddler only wants mom, or your kid pushes you away? Why it happens, why it stings, and what a dad can try this week, from bath time to the car ride.</summary><author><name>Daniel Walker</name><uri>https://thebetterfather.com/about/</uri></author></entry>
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